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I put the article “should be required to wear diapers to bed for older children, adolescents and young people?” On the Central Health Network and also a reader named “guest” felt that an older child or teenager may feel that they are punished by their parents to ask them to wear diapers to bed. I responded to the article “Parental decisions about bedwetting and diapers.” I know what I have said is very controversial and goes against the grain of most people think (professional and non-professional) on this topic. The point of my original article was about people, see this problem in a new light.

 

I can certainly see “Guest’s” point of view, but he said some things in his answer, that just proved my point. One of them was “Kids have difficulty” seeing two feet on the nose “to understand the consequences of their decisions.” They also tend to a somewhat distorted view of priorities “and” Where have the parents come in is in fact because they are older, are often a more realistic view of the “big picture.”

 

The big picture when I (and I think most people) is seen to be able to bed-wetting in a way that the boy is comfortable and helps them manage to maintain hygiene. If a teenager does not wear protective clothing and sets out the whole night in the urine-soaked sheets, or wearing a product that is how these leaks will help with hygiene, or make them feel comfortable?

 

I think that a young person to any type of diaper to bed strikes most people carry a punishment especially to the fact that conjure up a picture of diapers, a baby. Due to the negative image of diapers, people associate an older child, adolescent or teen, require them to wear to bed as something degrading and therefore punitive. The people are very symbol-oriented national flags, national anthems, art, medals and clothing are just some of the symbols we give to certain meanings and values. For many people, a diaper is a symbol, a symbol, a baby. But we must remember that the meaning and value we provide is a symbol not intrinsic, we are there to make it meaning and value. There is nothing intrinsic about babyish diapers-they are folded only an absorbent material between the legs and then wrapped around the waist of an individual attached to manage incontinence. It would be a great help when dictionaries define a diaper be worn instead of a garment of babies in this way. With the realization that not incontinent persons and bed-wetter nappies they need more, the implicit assumptions people have about diapers, which in turn perpetuates the image of diapers too childish. If I was responsible for writing the entry for the nappy in the dictionary, I would define it this way: “Folded Absorbent garment and between the legs of an individual then develops around the waist, fastened protect people with bed wetting problems, incontinence, and as a basic garment for babies before they potty trained. ”

 

In my opinion, is all about the attitude of the parents. If the parents give the child, adult or teenager in diapers to humiliate, to punish or demote it then it is wrong. But if the parents are with the nappies, as a tool, with the bed-wetting, this is my opinion, much acceptable.

 

Another thing Guest has mentioned that my comparison between wearing a cast and wearing a diaper is like comparing apples and oranges. ” He said: “A child is not necessarily sick or have a negative consequence of not wearing protection for bed-wetting as long as hygiene is maintained,” but they shall not, “protection for bed-wetting” can have a negative effect on health. Frequent contact with urine can cause skin damage, ulcerations and infections.

 

I have read that normal urine pH is between 6. 0 and 6 5 during the urine pH of incontinent people between the 8th 0 and 9 0 means that it more alkaline. This in turn can irritate the skin. I quote one article: “Prolonged exposure to urine is known to chemically irritate the skin and impairs its function.” Although the wearing of certain types of diapers can also cause skin problems, these problems can be minimized or eliminated by the appropriate skin care products such as lotions, powders creams, ointments and only the washing themselves thoroughly after changing diapers. Without diapers you just expose more areas of the skin to avoid adverse effects.

 

I will once again following point-I think that parents should be in terms of knowing the Youngster wearing diapers his understanding. That is the reason I proposed the implementation of the wage system to encourage them to try out the diapers and plastic pants. It is important that you could use this system for at least six months some young people need a year. It is my contention that the older child, teenager or young people are motivated to wear it because of the rewards. By encouraging the use of a reward system, they, diapers diapers to bed they will associate with something more comfortable to wear, get a reward. After a suitable time, she’ll probably wake up as comfortable in a dry bed, she will not need the benefits more and the wear diapers and rubber pants to drive his own bed.

 

One of the most important aspects of dealing with an illness, whether mental or physical feeling some degree of control over it. Once this feeling of control of a person to improve self-esteem. This is a recurring theme in discussions and debates on the use of diapers to manage bedwetting with older children, adolescents and teenagers. I touch on this topic often in my articles and I thought I would present it more in touch on that.

 

The prevailing view among most people, whether medical or not, that older children, adolescents, teens and autonomy should be granted in its decisions about what kind of protection to wear to bed. The reasoning behind this is that by forcing them to diapers to bed, you give them the feeling babyish are worn. Independence is very important as children get older, but in this context, the most important question is this: if the child, youth or teen chooses a product that do not offer sufficient protection or using no protection at all, parents should judge what to wear the most appropriate form of protection to bed trump the boy carry the need for independence? I personally feel it should be but everyone is different.

 

As noted in my article “ways in which parents indicated Can older children to encourage young people and young people to wear diapers to bed:” I think it’s an older child for the parents to explain important, why a certain style of diaper chose to manage their bed-wetting. This includes in particular the benefits of the product over other products, as these benefits and will help them to more efficiently manage their bedwetting. This will in turn feel the boy more comfortable and safer. In addition, parents should listen to the child if they have no objections to the wearing of a particular type of diaper and let them know that you understand how they must feel. At this point, parents should use to the child through different strategies of the child to her on the wearing of diapers and at night the special reward system they have created to help them to speak to help set the protection. It would be helpful if the parents get the child about the rewards system. By discussing the merits of a particular product and how this will help the child feel more comfortable and safer, by listening to the youngster could have any concerns, and by making their thoughts on the reward system is the child the feeling that Their decision is not arbitrary, and that you are not trying to belittle or humiliate. Finally, it shows that on the child’s feelings on the matter, making it more likely that they resist, the clothes, you respect before going to bed. Many parents fear the possibility of this battle of the night and the previous suggestions will help in this regard.

 

As far as teenagers are concerned, there may well convince them to challenge one of the advantages of diapers bed. The majority of young people are very sensitive to the idea of independence and many of them are very resistant to parental demands in general and in particular wear to bed. The need for autonomy increases significantly during these years. The book “Reclaiming Youth at Risk Our Hope for the Future by Larry K. Brendtro, Martin Brokenleg and Steve Van Bockern obtain the following to say on this:” The desire for more independence accelerated rapidly in early adolescence. Demand a poll to assess students how important take value of 24 statements, one of which was “to my own decisions. “This figure is up more between fifth and ninth grade than any other.”

 

In this sense, a different approach is justified, with young people. In some cases, parents give young people money for good grades. For example, they could give the teenagers a certain amount for each B and earn a certain amount for every A received. A similar system could be established to encourage the teenagers wearing diapers in bed. Ideas in this direction as well as different strategies may use a youth, to help them cope with diapers to bed in my my article “Ways to older children, to encourage young people and young people described by Bed Wear diapers and other issues.”

 

I have since reconsidered my previous position need something to young people to wear diapers to bed for bedwetting. I feel even older children should be required to wear diapers to bed when the experiments, the bed-wetting have not been successful and garments such as pull-ups and “Goodnite” ineffective cure to the protection of both the boy and the bedding, but as far as a teenager are concerned it might make sense from a psychological point of view, they have more leeway in this area. That being said, I feel concern teenagers with images, many of them will avoid for objective assessment of the benefits of certain types of protective clothing.

 

If talking to your teenager about his or her bedwetting and possible ways to manage it, it is important to dress in their shoes. First of all, is an embarrassing situation to say, and secondly, this embarrassment is hampered by the possibility they could have the feeling that she treats like a baby, giving them wear diapers to bed. With a teenager, it is important that they feel in control of the situation. This includes involving them in decision-making process. If you feel that the parents have a particular type or brand of diapers would be best to manage the bed-wetting because of their special circumstances and the teenager bar, you can say something along these lines: “Both your mother and I were studied different types of brands and products to manage available bed-wetting, and we feel that by your level of incontinence, it would take for you the best pin-on diapers with plastic pants (or any other type of nappy that parents can manage the best covered the problem) which offer excellent protection, which in turn make you feel more comfortable and safer. We worked a reward system, to encourage them to try for a while. Please note that we have your best interests at heart and we do it to punish or not to degrade you. We hope that you will not think we treat you like a baby. Note that there are many cases where persuade adults, other adults, diapers, as in the case of couples who could with bedwetting much wear. There are cases of children buying diapers are for their parents to incontinence due to medical problems. can lead to such diseases as Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s and other diseases, incontinence and the children have to buy diapers for their parents to to manage the incontinence. We would like for you at least try it for a while. Who knows, maybe you feel real comfortable and they would not consider going to bed without it on. Finally, you come to see that it is not so bad, she is wearing. In the long run you will the benefits of carrying recognize them to bed. I said, we have a reward system, you should encourage them to do these to try out for six months to a year. If after that time, you do not want to wear them, you can wear other clothing. “I would emphasize the teen that it’s best for them is the most effective pieces of clothing to wear to their bed-wetting is not the clothes that have the best image to work around.

 

In relation to the self-esteem is one of the issues that I have not seen addressed is: a large part of the self-esteem is a sense of control over the circumstances. To this, we assume decisions on the best way to have to have to follow, given our particular circumstances, and since everyone here the circumstances are different people make different decisions. The way we do this decision is by evaluating all available options and then select the best from all others. In some cases this might not be the most pleasant, but over time we learn to adapt. Adults do this all the time and the ability to do so in young people must be instilled early on.

 

How this is consistent with bedwetting and diapers to manage in the following manner: by not wearing the most effective protection (or no protection helps at all) the boy is indeed show that they do not act in a responsible manner, which I is childish. I would tell them that is to some degree it more babyish diapers not to bed. I would also tell them that part of being mature is to choose the best way to be a problem, manage to be in certain situations, not necessarily the most pleasant. Most adults are also reluctant to wear diapers, but they realize it is in their best interest to do so, and although it may take much time and effort to make this adjustment, in the end, most are able to get used to wearing them. Many times we have to choose in life, the lesser of two evils. In the case of bed-wetting, the lesser of two evils is wearing a diaper as opposed to waking up in soaking wet pajamas and sheets.

 

 

The qualities of being responsible and the selection of the best approach under the circumstances, some of the hallmarks of being an adult. It also makes an individual feel in control of the situation to improve the individual’s self-esteem.

 

As the whole night lying in wet clothes and bedding or wearing a diaper that leaks into the situation under control? On the contrary, the whole night lying in wet clothes, it reminds the person that they are not under control. In discussing these questions is the key thing is mentioned, the negative psychological effect that a young person to wear diapers to bed, but what are apparently not considered that a feeling not in control of the problem of adverse psychological effects can also have the can last for a long time. As mentioned in previous articles people have different levels of incontinence. In addition, they could incontinence in different ways, some people sleep on their sides effect and have problems with this site leakage, wet, some people need more than others in the night, etc. Due to these differences people have certain types and brands of diapers would otherwise they do not manufacture such a wide variety of products. Are the most effective type of diapers to bed, whether pin diapers and plastic pants, tape-on supplies or other products, allows the user to feel more control over the situation and help you feel the person more confidence. This in turn improves the bed-wetter’s self-esteem.

 

I wanted to make it clear where I stand on this issue. I had the impression that some people might think that I am heartless, because I’m holding on this issue. Nothing could be further from the truth. I look forward to your comments this or any of my other articles. It is good to have constructive dialogues in this field. . Many people have preconceived ideas in this regard and I hope my writings can in some people to rethink some of their basic ideas on the subject. We as a society to overcome many of our prejudices and become more mature, where many questions are involved. For instance, there is less stigma of mental illness and other diseases. Hopefully in time it will be less of a stigma of using diapers to manage bedwetting with older children, adolescents, young people and adults.