Question : We can’t agree on a mattress? Back problems are a big issue…?
My boyfriend and I have been sharing a bed for 6 years now, and we both hated our mattress. So recently we decided to invest in a good mattress… we were really interested in Tempur-pedic, but decided against it. We ended up getting a luxurious ‘Aireloom’ mattress that is supposed to be supportive, but also has a huge fluffy pillow top (with latex foam, I think).

Now, I have no problem with the mattress… I love feeling enveloped by it, but my boyfriend has been suffering from bad back pain. He has sciatica (pressure on the sciatic nerve resulting in chronic back and leg pain… not usually a permanent condition).

We are nearing the deadline for exchanging it, and I was wondering if anyone has experienced a similar issue, and if so, is there a particular mattress that has worked well for you? I prefer a soft mattress… he prefers firm.
I should also mention that we can’t get a ‘Sleep Number’ because they are not carried at Sit and Sleep (we have to exchange for something there)
latex foam pillows

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Answer by CAR
I also have the same problem but have not yet resolved it. There is a new research that suggests that contrary to popular belief, a firm mattress may not necessarily be best for the back. Although experts said it doesn’t mean everyone would benefit from a medium mattress, and that trial and error is still the best way to choose.

I also found a previous response that may be useful to you

by shade237… Member since:
November 27, 2006
I never recommend a firm mattress (although we do have them on sale) because your body does not need a firm surface to sleep on. It will eventually hurt your back, neck, etc.

Someone here mentioned a “7-zoned” area mattress and I have to say that he is correct. Different parts of your body need different support. Your back (between your shoulder and your hips) needs the most support than your neck, head, or legs.

3-zoned mattresses are great because they use different types of foams to address different areas of your body. They will use a firmer foam in the center of the mattress to address your back and two different foams on the top and bottom of the mattress for your head and legs.

If you can’t find a 3-zoned mattress, then buy a plush mattress because its softness will allow the foam to comfort to your body. The back will get the support needed while the softness will be easy on your neck and legs.

Pillow top mattresses are great if you are looking for lots of softness. They may also provide great support for your back, but if you are someone suffering with back problems I suggest finding a thinner pillow top so you can have great support with some comfort.

Remember back problems = weak back. Get the support your back needs. Do NOT buy foam mattresses (like tempurpedic). Tempurpedic is great but does not give enough support your back needs. A spring-mattress will be much better!

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