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How do I get my child use the toilet alone at night?

We have potty training my daughter for a few months now have been. She is to remain completely dry at night. The problem is we have several times she wakes up at night to use the toilet and standing in the bathroom to cry until we come to help her. We try to encourage them to pull their own PJ-rise and on the toilet, but she just cries and asks for help. We have installed night lights and leave the bathroom light on. We also have her potty seat and step stool in place to make it as easy as possible. It calls us to come help and screams until all is in the house awake. I do not know what to do to stop this. Please help anyone!

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#1 written by The Syko Ward 1 year ago

Um….keep helping her till she’s more comfortable alone. Sounds like your on the right track. Shouldn’t take much longer. Hang in there. That’s why your a mommy.

The Syko Ward

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#2 written by paulamlank 1 year ago

Through all 3 kids and one grandchild I don’t think there is an answer to this. Not one that doesn’t make the child feel “alone”. I always went with them. I made them quit drinking about an hour and a half to two hours before bedtime so they would sleep all night but if they woke up I would go with them. They eventually do it themselves when they hit about 4 or 5 years old.

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#3 written by rascals2 1 year ago

If you find out I’d like to know. Unfortunately I don’t think there is an easy fix for this one. Its just gonna take time.

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#4 written by malwilhist 1 year ago

Keep in mind that this is the first time in your daughter’s life that she has been the only person awake in the house. I remember when I was a child and if I had a nightmare, I’d stand outside my parents’ door before I could work up the courage to walk in because I didn’t want them to be mad. Granted, I was slightly older than your daughter, but she is used to waking up and having you be ready to see her. Maybe try sticking some pictures of you and your husband with her across from her potty so she sees you. Another option might be to put a small radio in the bathroom and leave it on so that it’s not so quiet when she goes in-a quiet house can be scary. OR, you and your husband could record a special message for her each night and let her push the play button herself so that she has a new message from you to look forward to when she goes potty in the middle of the night. Just be sure to explain it to her when she’s awake so that she knows what to do. Another idea might be to have her come wake one of you before going into the bathroom, you can unzip her from your bed, send her to the bathroom and come back to be zipped up. That way you aren’t physically getting up to help her and she’s not screaming the entire household awake. Good luck!

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#5 written by aprildin 1 year ago

Well she is scared, and maybe she is too young to be using the bathroom by herself. What if she falls in the toilet head first. No, I wouldn’t allow my toddler to use the bathroom by herself. I know this is hard on you, but maybe you can put a potty in your room and tell her to come into your room and just to use the potty. Maybe she won’t feel all alone then. Another thing I would recommend is to limit the amount of fluids you are giving her before bed, as she shouldn’t be getting up several times or even every night. Another thing I could recommend is a reward chart. you could reward her with stickers or a healthy treat!!

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#6 written by toomanycommercials 1 year ago

I know this isn’t the answer you’re looking for, but I think you need to accept the fact that your daughter is still too young to take care of this in the night alone. I get up at least once a night with my 3 year old; while I don’t like it, she is just too little to be up in the night by herself, let alone taking care of “business”. I won’t make her do it alone till she’s four or five, probably.

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#7 written by DuneFL 1 year ago

Wake her up and take her to the bathroom when you go to bed. She should prob. only need to go once in the night…….maybe then she won’t wake up and call for you. Also, make sure to put her in undies that are a size big so they are easy for her to get up and down…if it’s not too cold, just have her sleep in undies and a t-shirt so she can manage her clothes even when she’s groggy. She’s probably just disoriented and tired so it’s easier to cry for you than to manage it all.

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#8 written by Linda D 1 year ago

Stop giving her any liquids 2 hours before bedtime, make sure she empties her bladder before bed time and then she won’t be getting up during the night. Other than that, perhaps you should tell her ‘big girls’ go to the bathroom quielty by themselves all of the time.

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#9 written by myrtairaven 1 year ago

There is nothing you can do but wait until she is old enough to do it herself. It takes awhile but she will get there. Seeing that she gets to the bathroom by herself it shouldnt take long.

How old is she?
My daughter is 4 and has only just now started going by herself during the night and I am quite proud of her. But with my oldest I always had to help her as she wouldnt wake up properly, she’d sleep walk and tell me and then I’d have to guide her to the bathroom etc.
But they do eventually learn, but as she has just started potty training give her a break. It great that she knows to get to the bathroom in the first place. But imagine waking up confused and needing to go but scared as your all alone and its dark. Of course she needs help. Just give her time and she will learn.

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#10 written by emily 1 year ago

I agree that she’s just too young to be up handling things alone at night. If you don’t want every one in the house aake. Then get up immediately when she calls. You’ll get more sleep in the long run getting up for those few minutes than if you lie awake waiting for her to quit calling and end up getting up anyhow. You don’t want her to reverse her tactics and start wetting the bed because she can’t go to the potty alone anyhow.

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#11 written by Ghost Writer 1 year ago

Get your butt out of bed and help her, for cryin’ out loud!!!!!!!!! Tell her to come and wake you up so everyone else can get sleep. If she has only been potty training for X amount of months, you should be happy she at least wakes up to go. But expecting her to do it herself in the middle of the night is LAZINESS!!!!!!!!!!

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